The Bachelorette

After last nights viewing of the bachelorette, I want to know honestly where did they find some of these phsyco loonies? Kasey really??? "I want to guard and protect your heart" yeah enough already asshole, we get it. We know, you were picked to "guard & protect" Ali's heart. But to get a tattoo??? How dumb is this idiot? Does he realize that he is going to never live that down? And that poem...WTF was that? Subtitles had to be used because you could not understand a word mush mouth was saying...maybe the way talks is due to getting punched in the face too many times in high school! Maybe he was trying to "guard & protect" his girlfriends in high school and eventually they got sick of him saying how he is meant to "guard & protect their hearts" and they decked him time after time!!

Then there is Justin...oh Justin...I did not like this dude from the moment he had stepped out of the limo...it was one of those moments that you literally wish you could go into tvland & strangle him. Seriously "Rated R" is going to be soon known as "Rated X" when he gets axed for triple timing Ali. Yes I said triple timing, do you honestly think this guy has more than one girlfriend? I wonder how many baby mama's he really has. Well at least he's not screwing one of camera people or anyone on the crew for that matter.

I want to know honestly what the producers are thinking, especially after Wes pulled the same shit with Jillian. Ok, so yeah maybe it was good for ratings, but people's hearts are on the line here and to bring in trash like that disgusts me. I don't think it's right to toy with someone's feelings, especially in this type of situation and atmosphere.

Then there is Chris L. who I just adore. I think this guy is a super catch and if Ali doesn't end up with him, well then he should be the next Bachelor. There is just something about this guy that puts my ovaries into an uproar!! lol

Frank - oh Frank - I don't know about Frank - he seems really sweet and all...but I think he has jealousy issues - not good for any relationship. I think that Frank is going to go insane pretty quickly he doesn't get some good quality time with Ali. Like in the previews Ali says "Our relationship scares me"... get your sneakers out Ali and run...run away as fast as you can. I think Frank will be leaving very soon. I am thinking there is something very suspicious about Frank...I am thinking that he as a girlfriend back home too...but we shall see.

Craig - All I can picture right now is Craig riding a minature horse and his feet almost dragging on the ground. Craig is a nice guy...but I don't think that spark is there...but who knows...

Roberto - He's just to suave for me...I don't like the guy...he kind of creeps me out...I don't know why...everyone thinks he's got the whole kit-'n-kiddle going for him...but I don't think so...so he can Salsa...so can a lot of other men :)

Kirk - I think Ali and him got in on in NY...yep...wine me, dine me, 69 me...you can see it in their eyes...dreaming of doing the humpty hump again!!! Well at least it wasn't a one night fling cuz he's still there! But it's just a phase that is going to pass!!

Then there is my cowboy Ty- yummy!! I just love him and his southern charm. I think him and Chris L are the 2 sweetest guys there. I would snatch Ty up in a heartbeat. But for some reason I don't think that he is going to be there much longer.

I honestly do not know how Chris N stayed on the show as long as he did. I forgot he was there half the time because he never spoke but 5 words. It was like the cat had his tongue the whole entire time. Then Ali got alone time with him - maybe she should have brought some duct tape with her for when he finally did speak - I started to fall back to sleep and she polietly moved further away. Seriously after that - you had to know that he wasn't getting a rose. I am sure he enjoyed his quite limo ride to the airport!

Well we shall see what the coming weeks has to bring us. I think it's going to be very eventful!!

Note to the Producers (as if they will read this!! haha) - Do better background checks on these guys. Try to leave the physcos at home or in the looney bin where they belong. Look what this show has done to Kasey - he went out and got a fucking tattoo for Christs sake because lets not forget he was brought on the show to "Guard & Protect" Ali's heart. I think he is going to need a therapist after getting the boot last night.

The Power of Positive Thinking

I am one of those people who believe in positive thinking. If you think positive, you will bring positive energy into your life and surroundings.

Leave your negativity at the door. I get a lot of people telling me I am quacked and that positive thinking is a joke & will get you nothing or nowhere. Well I beg to differ. The power of energy is everywhere, it surrounds us. The good, the bad the evil.

Being a massage therapist you learn about energy and how it is released from the body. That is why it is so important to protect your self when working with or on others. Get in the habit of waking up and telling yourself that it is going to be a good day. Protect yourself, wether it be that you put yourself into your imaginery bubble that surrounds you, a cross, necklace, special piece of jewelry that you are wearing as your protectant.

One particular day I forgot to protect myself before I worked on a client. Well, that was the biggest mistake that I only made once, because for the next 2 days I felt every symptom that my client experienced. I picked up their energy and carried it inside of me. Live and learn! From that day forward I always make sure to protect myself and my surroundings.

I had a co-worker who when he would come to work would always complain about not being able to get any sales or just bitch about everything. Saying "they are not coming back", "they are just wasting my time", " I don't know why I have to be stuck out here?" etc. Well, the one day I told him think positive and you will get that sale. Well, he jumped down my throat about me and my positive thinking, and telling me that is bullshit and so forth. I told him watch the difference between how I deliver the information and how he delivered information to possible customers.
Well I had 3 sales in a matter of minutes and he had none. He told me I was lucky. I was like ok whatever.

So I used one of my favorite examples; It's Friday night, you and a group of friends are all going out to the club. You have felt GREAT all day, you are stoked to go out and have a great time. You get the club with your friends and the minute you walk in - bomb it hits you like bomb and that feel good feeling turns to shit and you just can't seem to have a good time. You go from being the happy smiling person you were 10 minutes ago to the grump. What happened???
It's all the bad energy from people that you let in. That's what happened. If you don't believe me try this experiment. Protect yourself before you go out one evening and then don't do it another time and see the difference and feel the difference for yourself.

So open your hearts, protect yourself and believe in the higher power of being positive. It does the body good!